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The Biggest Argument We Kept Having When We First Got Married

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When we first got engaged, things moved pretty quickly from there, and 10 months later we were officially married. There were a lot of adjustments and new experiences that were happening in a very short amount of time, and they were all equally exciting and challenging. But there was one issue that kept coming up again and again, and we kept having the same argument over and over. Can you guess what it was about?

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