Coming out is hard. But besides that, it’s also freeing, scary, exhilarating, emotional, and one of the most important things we’ll go through as members of the LGBTQ+ community. But there’s one thing that didn’t occur to us after we came out all those years ago…

We’re coming up on our fourth wedding anniversary in a less than two months, and we get questions all the time about our big day. Did we go big or small? Where was the location? How many people came? The truth is, we wouldn’t change a thing about our wedding, except for one major thing.

Believe it or not, this used to be one of our biggest arguments.

We can’t tell you how many times we’ve been in the situation where, in that exact moment, we feel like we never want to talk to each other again.

It’s been exactly three weeks of being home and working together every day. Here’s how that’s going…

We all want someone who will laugh at our jokes, comfort us when we cry, share our same interests and hobbies, help make dinner, pick up the house, satisfy us sexually, and be there for us when we need support. In this day and age, that really too much to ask?

The other day we tried something we’ve never done (together) before…

It’s a question we get time and time again, so let’s finally explore it today.

Every year on January 1st, like clockwork, we make our New Year’s Resolutions. Do you do the same?

This weekend, for the first time in a long time, we tried something new, and actually really, really liked it.

A couple of months ago, we talked about changing last names after getting married, and we even made a YouTube video about it. Today, I’m (Thomas) going to discuss why I took PJ’s last name in detail, and why I never gave it a second thought.

The one question we get more than any other one is…

When we first got together, we quickly bonded over our shared love of fall. It helped that we got together in August, right before the season began, but we also bonded over our love of something else, and it’s something we look forward to every year.

Today we’re celebrating three years of marriage! 

Hi, Thomas here today.

PJ said something to me the other day that really resonated with me and, like most things in life, it was completely unintentional in the effect it had on me. Don’t you love when that happens, though?